That’s How We MetMaya & Jordan

That’s how they met

Three pizzas.Oneunexpectedguest.

Maya and Jordan’s coastal selfie after the proposal, with Jordan holding the camera and Maya showing her engagement ring.
Painted illustration of three pizza boxes, with the top box open.

Maya opened the door, saw three pizza boxes and reached for them.

“I’m a friend of Lena’s,” the man holding them said.

“So am I,” Maya replied.

There was a pause. Maya had invited Lena to dinner. What Lena had forgotten to mention was that she had also invited Jordan.

So Maya thought dinner had arrived. Jordan thought he had.

Neither was quite right.

“I thought he was delivering dinner. He thought he’d been invited to it.”

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Once it was clear Jordan was not the delivery driver, things did not immediately become clearer.

Maya remembers telling him she needed to find another plate. Jordan remembers Maya telling him to wait outside.

“I didn’t tell him to wait outside.”

“She definitely told me to wait outside.”

What they agree on is that Jordan ended up in a wicker chair on the porch. Maya brought out a plate, then a glass, then the salad. Lena still had not arrived, so they opened a pizza.

Supplied photograph of Maya and Jordan sharing pizza.

Jordan texted:

“Can I come over if I only bring one pizza this time?”

Maya replied:

“No. We’re going somewhere I know who’s coming.”

Their first actual date was dinner. No Lena. No porch. No unexpected guests. They stayed for three hours.

A year later, pizza was still part of the story.

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Same school. Different classrooms.

Supplied childhood school portrait of Maya.
Supplied childhood school portrait of Jordan.

Months later, Maya was at her parents’ house looking through old photographs when Jordan recognized the school name.

“Wait. You went to Jefferson?”

They compared years, then teachers. Same elementary school. Same year. Different classrooms.

Then Jordan saw Maya’s portrait.

“Wait—you were May?”

Maya nodded.

“Now I remember you. You had those braces and always wore that red sweatshirt.”

Maya stared at him. “You remember my sweatshirt?”

Jordan did. Maya, unfortunately for Jordan, remembered absolutely nothing about him.

“Apparently it took us another fifteen years and three pizzas.”

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Supplied photograph of Maya and Jordan outdoors with wooded hills behind them.

They still disagree about when they became a couple. Jordan votes for the first night on the porch. Maya puts it several weeks later, after a hike that was supposed to take two hours and took nearly five.

Jordan had chosen the trail. Maya had downloaded the map. Neither fact prevented them from missing a turn.

That evening, exhausted and dirty, Maya realized she had spent five hours lost with someone and somehow had a good day.

The bigger story is made of smaller things. Jordan makes Maya laugh when she is trying not to. Maya notices what Jordan misses. She makes the reservation; he finds the place they end up liking better.

They disagree, cool off, and come back to the same conversation. They know which differences matter and which have become part of the joke.

“With Jordan, even the ordinary stuff is fun.”

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Editorial illustration inspired by the proposal: an open ring box on a rock above a coastal trail and the ocean.

Jordan proposed at the coastal overlook they had found on one of his unnecessary detours.

Maya was talking about dinner reservations when she realized Jordan had stopped walking. When she turned around, he was holding a small box.

He had prepared something to say. He remembers saying most of it. Maya remembers almost none of it.

“I know it was very nice,” she says.

What she remembers is his face. And saying yes.

Lena will be at the wedding, of course. She maintains that she introduced them. Maya maintains that an introduction generally requires telling both people it is happening.

Jordan has declined to take sides. He has, however, been told exactly what time to arrive.

This time, Maya knows he’s coming.

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